I don't like the thought of me being "disabled" either but i'm not one to let pride get in the way of caring for my family.
The thing of it is right this second, James is on Medical Leave from the fruit bowl. he's literally not fit to work his choice was Medical leave or get fired.
It's the same blasted problem i had with them about 3 or 4 years ago
In that case i just stopped taking my meds and just deal with the pain, and James can't do that.
So I'm the most functional bread maker in the house.
If James was able t to go back to Work then i could think about it.
MY family would be 1000% better off with me at home with Aiden and house cleaning and home making
I had several responses that tried to argue to me ( on FB) that it's unfair to compare it to alcoholism but really it's the same thing. But really it is to me and i suspect it would be to the fruit basket.
I'm so thankful this wasn't lupus - we really thought it was there for a month or so.
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Date: 2012-10-11 04:58 pm (UTC)I don't like the thought of me being "disabled" either but i'm not one to let pride get in the way of caring for my family.
The thing of it is right this second, James is on Medical Leave from the fruit bowl. he's literally not fit to work his choice was Medical leave or get fired.
It's the same blasted problem i had with them about 3 or 4 years ago
In that case i just stopped taking my meds and just deal with the pain, and James can't do that.
So I'm the most functional bread maker in the house.
If James was able t to go back to Work then i could think about it.
MY family would be 1000% better off with me at home with Aiden and house cleaning and home making
I had several responses that tried to argue to me ( on FB) that it's unfair to compare it to alcoholism but really it's the same thing. But really it is to me and i suspect it would be to the fruit basket.
I'm so thankful this wasn't lupus - we really thought it was there for a month or so.