Lindsey Swem (![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
phoenix_arose) wrote2009-10-11 09:57 pm
phoenix_arose) wrote2009-10-11 09:57 pm
I'm pissed and it's not pregnacy induced
after a really frusterating evening i have rearranged the pantry at our house - 2 of 3 shelves are now labled James and Lindsey food only, there is a shelf for "community food" and a shelf labeled and split 4 ways for the 4 room mates, they can stave to death for all i care the fridge has also been rearranged and a labled for our food on one side and other peoples stuff on the other side
Todfay i came home and hear people bitching that we spend money on food and bring "nothing home" strange thing is they eat tyhat "nothing" and then lave us with nothing to eat . this sucks i spant alot of yesterday attempting to figure out where all our money gets off to. i ran a budget and we should have about 200 a week left over for fun things even if onlty one roomamte paid . now that i have rearranged the food stuffs i've discovered that the reason JAemsand i are broke is b/c the the roomamtes who don't pay for food eat all of ours, so we are feedeing 1 preggo chick, 1 deit specific male(my hubby) and 4 garbage disposals also known as room mates they eat liek teenagers andy one feeing more than one teenage male and appericaite how many grocheries that can be in a month it's costing us over 300 that's where our money keeps goign to
hopfulyl this will be step one of several in them getting their shit straight or getting the fark out of my house
next steps are
1. raise rent , we ar enot chargin them enought as we are also their maid and lawn service and we probide them with tyolettries as well, basically we are a hotel ..... we need more money to be a hotel plus or mortgage goes up next month
2. enforce pasyingh on time and add late fees
3. post notes all ove the ohuiosue about how they need to turn off lights and not mess with the themastat, enforce the comptuer must hibernate during the day this iscludes the oversized CRT moniters that go with them
4. if you borrow our cars you put gas back in them, i'm tired of not having gas b/c our cars get barrowed
Todfay i came home and hear people bitching that we spend money on food and bring "nothing home" strange thing is they eat tyhat "nothing" and then lave us with nothing to eat . this sucks i spant alot of yesterday attempting to figure out where all our money gets off to. i ran a budget and we should have about 200 a week left over for fun things even if onlty one roomamte paid . now that i have rearranged the food stuffs i've discovered that the reason JAemsand i are broke is b/c the the roomamtes who don't pay for food eat all of ours, so we are feedeing 1 preggo chick, 1 deit specific male(my hubby) and 4 garbage disposals also known as room mates they eat liek teenagers andy one feeing more than one teenage male and appericaite how many grocheries that can be in a month it's costing us over 300 that's where our money keeps goign to
hopfulyl this will be step one of several in them getting their shit straight or getting the fark out of my house
next steps are
1. raise rent , we ar enot chargin them enought as we are also their maid and lawn service and we probide them with tyolettries as well, basically we are a hotel ..... we need more money to be a hotel plus or mortgage goes up next month
2. enforce pasyingh on time and add late fees
3. post notes all ove the ohuiosue about how they need to turn off lights and not mess with the themastat, enforce the comptuer must hibernate during the day this iscludes the oversized CRT moniters that go with them
4. if you borrow our cars you put gas back in them, i'm tired of not having gas b/c our cars get barrowed
*hugs*
Re: *hugs*
they are my husbands friends..... he is now equally upset which means *drumroll* we could kick them out now that he's on the same page as me
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Now that you're starting your own family, no matter how good the friend, they gotta go. You don't need anyone in the new dynamic, no matter the reason. Let no one else live in your house but Mom, Dad, and Baby.
Second, *comfies*
I suggest instead of making new rules, you find a new place for them to be. Expect it's going to be rough on you at first after they're gone, (more expensive), but in the end it will be worthwhile, and way way way less stressful. This way the friends you have will stay friends, instead of people you despise.
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