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phoenix_aroseLove and Me
Page of coins
The wise apprentice merges willingly with a possible partner or romantic relationship.
The card in the Love & Me position touches on an aspect of how you perceive yourself with regard to possible intimacy in your life.
With the Page of Coins (in some decks, a Princess) in this position, you are typified as a person who is reinventing her or himself to create a better fit with a chosen partner or loved one. The wise apprentice shapes him or herself to the needs of the relationship and embraces a lifestyle, not just a limited "job" description.
Such adaptability requires some study, some preparation -- not to mention the actual experience of getting in there and wrestling with the challenge until you become skilled. As you improve your relationship skills you feel better and add value to your relationships.
Situaltion
Page of Swords
Main (positional) Meaning:
As a potential couple, you and a possible partner must regard each other as best friends and reliable confidants so that your personal affairs do not get spread all around.
The card that lands in the Situation position refers to social or circumstantial factors which could be affecting your life at this time.
When the Page of Swords (in some decks, a Princess) is in this position, you and a possible loved one may be contending with a somewhat suspicious and untrustworthy situation. You may be surrounded by gossips or blabbermouths -- or even worse, saboteurs. You certainly don't want to open up or share sensitive information to people who might abuse it. This card indicates a paranoid environment in which everyone is a self-centered spy and no one is quite sure whom to trust. Before you share too much, examine the motives of those who want to know.
In this situation, what people do not tell you is just as important as what they do. Keep your antennae turned on and you will be more aware of nonverbal clues. Work a little harder to understand where others are coming from so that their behavior doesn't confuse you. You and your possible love interest need to be best friends right now. With regard to the outer world, be like flies on a wall -- just watch and listen without drawing attention to yourselves.
Challenges
Ten of Cups
Main (positional) Meaning:
Having worked through a difficult relationship, you know in your heart that you have done what is best for all concerned.
The card that lands in the Challenges position refers to ways that you can turn obstacles into stepping stones.
With the Ten of Cups in this position, you may let yourself relax, knowing your labors are completed. The worst may be over, and a much brighter future lies ahead. You may be moving towards a life that is very different than the one you inherited. You know that your heroic effort has made a real difference in the way things are now unfolding.
Even if you don't receive all the recognition you have earned, a solid core of self-esteem may now be your permanent possession. By doing the right thing under a challenging relationship, you kept the greater good in mind. Knowing this produces feelings of personal gratification. Now, you may be free to go beyond this difficulty and learn to live in a totally new way.
Page of coins
The wise apprentice merges willingly with a possible partner or romantic relationship.
The card in the Love & Me position touches on an aspect of how you perceive yourself with regard to possible intimacy in your life.
With the Page of Coins (in some decks, a Princess) in this position, you are typified as a person who is reinventing her or himself to create a better fit with a chosen partner or loved one. The wise apprentice shapes him or herself to the needs of the relationship and embraces a lifestyle, not just a limited "job" description.
Such adaptability requires some study, some preparation -- not to mention the actual experience of getting in there and wrestling with the challenge until you become skilled. As you improve your relationship skills you feel better and add value to your relationships.
Situaltion
Page of Swords
Main (positional) Meaning:
As a potential couple, you and a possible partner must regard each other as best friends and reliable confidants so that your personal affairs do not get spread all around.
The card that lands in the Situation position refers to social or circumstantial factors which could be affecting your life at this time.
When the Page of Swords (in some decks, a Princess) is in this position, you and a possible loved one may be contending with a somewhat suspicious and untrustworthy situation. You may be surrounded by gossips or blabbermouths -- or even worse, saboteurs. You certainly don't want to open up or share sensitive information to people who might abuse it. This card indicates a paranoid environment in which everyone is a self-centered spy and no one is quite sure whom to trust. Before you share too much, examine the motives of those who want to know.
In this situation, what people do not tell you is just as important as what they do. Keep your antennae turned on and you will be more aware of nonverbal clues. Work a little harder to understand where others are coming from so that their behavior doesn't confuse you. You and your possible love interest need to be best friends right now. With regard to the outer world, be like flies on a wall -- just watch and listen without drawing attention to yourselves.
Challenges
Ten of Cups
Main (positional) Meaning:
Having worked through a difficult relationship, you know in your heart that you have done what is best for all concerned.
The card that lands in the Challenges position refers to ways that you can turn obstacles into stepping stones.
With the Ten of Cups in this position, you may let yourself relax, knowing your labors are completed. The worst may be over, and a much brighter future lies ahead. You may be moving towards a life that is very different than the one you inherited. You know that your heroic effort has made a real difference in the way things are now unfolding.
Even if you don't receive all the recognition you have earned, a solid core of self-esteem may now be your permanent possession. By doing the right thing under a challenging relationship, you kept the greater good in mind. Knowing this produces feelings of personal gratification. Now, you may be free to go beyond this difficulty and learn to live in a totally new way.
