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Jul. 14th, 2005 05:06 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
phoenix_aroseToday is kind of a slow day - that’s' cool I’m learning to get less panicked about my phone not ringing!
*Note to self* get am morning update template together and remember to post it every morning
I’m feeling kinda icky from sinus stuff - I’m not going to die or anything but I’m not feeling great either which makes me kinda short with the people on the phone - some one just told me thank you! That totally made my day =)
I was scrolling trough my friends page this morning and here was the post that prompted the rest of
Please excuse the possible random thought jumps typing while at work.
shadesong was posting about how meth affects the people esp. children around them. Some place in there shadesong says that once you know it's no longer about you.
My thoughts:
Once you know you have several choices (I’ll try and get a flow chart up here soonish)
Choice A - you decide to not carry the baby full term
Reasons why:
I do realize that there is a fine line between the first and last reasons - life is all about fine lines and if people have other suggestions on why - I want them so comment! =)
The end of the road: You pregnancy is terminated - either mother nature aborts or you and your doctor do
Choice B - you decide to carry the baby
Reasons Why:
* Moral objection to abortion - religious, personal belief, ect
* Legal reasons - it is not legal in your city, state, or country; you are past the legal time you have to make the choice
* Don’t know till it's too late - i know it happens
* You want a baby=)
I do realized there are more reasons - please send them to me in general categories
The end of the road:
Option A: You keep the baby - yay for you. You have choosing to love support and serve this new human until they are able to cope with out you this means until one of you dies - your life choices are no longer just about yourself they are now about both of you. If you are not prepared for this please take choice option b or take Choice A.
Option B: You are going to give the baby up for adoption - wonderful there are allot of people out there who would want your baby. This has a much shorter time commitment on it - your choices are no longer about you alone either. While you are pregnant for 9 months you are making choices that affect someone else's baby. After the baby is born open or close adoption allows you to be or not be part of the child’s life - un till they are old enough to decide whether they want you in their life.
DISCLIAMER: the above is my opinion on things - please do not attack me - name calling will not be tolerated - how ever ideas don't generally y have feeling so please attack the idea all you want
I’m case the title has you wondering - we got new pillows at my house and I got real sleep last night! weeee!
*Note to self* get am morning update template together and remember to post it every morning
I’m feeling kinda icky from sinus stuff - I’m not going to die or anything but I’m not feeling great either which makes me kinda short with the people on the phone - some one just told me thank you! That totally made my day =)
I was scrolling trough my friends page this morning and here was the post that prompted the rest of
Please excuse the possible random thought jumps typing while at work.
shadesong was posting about how meth affects the people esp. children around them. Some place in there shadesong says that once you know it's no longer about you.
My thoughts:
Once you know you have several choices (I’ll try and get a flow chart up here soonish)
Choice A - you decide to not carry the baby full term
Reasons why:
- Not the right time in your life - you are single broke and on the street unable to support your self, ect
- Not physically able to carry - you are on radiation treatment for cancer, you are on med that prevent you from dying, ect
- You have a known genetic defect and you are sure that the child has it as well
- You prefer to maintain your current lifestyle - using drugs is more important to you than having the baby, ect
I do realize that there is a fine line between the first and last reasons - life is all about fine lines and if people have other suggestions on why - I want them so comment! =)
The end of the road: You pregnancy is terminated - either mother nature aborts or you and your doctor do
Choice B - you decide to carry the baby
Reasons Why:
* Moral objection to abortion - religious, personal belief, ect
* Legal reasons - it is not legal in your city, state, or country; you are past the legal time you have to make the choice
* Don’t know till it's too late - i know it happens
* You want a baby=)
I do realized there are more reasons - please send them to me in general categories
The end of the road:
Option A: You keep the baby - yay for you. You have choosing to love support and serve this new human until they are able to cope with out you this means until one of you dies - your life choices are no longer just about yourself they are now about both of you. If you are not prepared for this please take choice option b or take Choice A.
Option B: You are going to give the baby up for adoption - wonderful there are allot of people out there who would want your baby. This has a much shorter time commitment on it - your choices are no longer about you alone either. While you are pregnant for 9 months you are making choices that affect someone else's baby. After the baby is born open or close adoption allows you to be or not be part of the child’s life - un till they are old enough to decide whether they want you in their life.
DISCLIAMER: the above is my opinion on things - please do not attack me - name calling will not be tolerated - how ever ideas don't generally y have feeling so please attack the idea all you want
I’m case the title has you wondering - we got new pillows at my house and I got real sleep last night! weeee!
