phoenix_arose | This is a girlie issues post

SO in the general chorus of who hate their respective uteri - I am not a big fan of mine - it's caused me general issues my whole life. And in one instance it conspired with (Person) and my self to make me sick and have a D&C. It has the worst timing on the planet and it doesn't listen to birth control pills. I have made a fairly brave choice to chemically alter my bio chemistry with any form of birth control - which kind of makes life a gamble - I'm quite up font about this have been for some time b/c for what ever reason guys don't ask they just assume that all young women are. The only slightly irritating thing abot doing it this way is - i don't know when I'm going to start - when you have the pill you have a 5-7 time frame in which you know you will be crampy and bloated and bleeding ... I get no such warming system my cycle is pretty accurate it's 28- 32 - and is largely affected by stress *sigh*. As I approach my Quarter Century mark I find my elf reflecting on the possibility of having all the parts taken out now nobody freak out I can't have them out just yet - I do want to have kids- but it sparked a discussion yesterday ... Why is it that pagans seem to be the most responsible about reproducing ? seriously we are taught to respect our bodies and our partners and we have a good deal of knowledge about sex - and I'd be willing to wager that there are less oops one night things then baby thing to .... I'm done rambling now